Thursday, November 26, 2009
Our emotions decide whether we win or lose weight. As you are at any given time is the dominant force of your weight loss effort. Weight Loss is on all our feelings and I urge anyone to refute this statement. We as a people and do things that bring us joy and we avoid the things that cause us pain.
Why do we choose to eat too much or indulge yourself with the things that may not be the best for us? Because it gives us joy. Just think of many occasions in your life, where food was the focus. When we celebrate with friends and family, we eat. When We mourn the loss of a loved one, the food is there again to comfort people. If we are nervous, we eat. Sad, we eat. If we are happy to do what we do? That's right eat. So by overeating, consuming more calories with excess food, we start packing on unwanted pounds.
But it brings us short term, like something to eat. If it brings us joy, it is emotion based. At the moment, the pleasure in eating that extra piece of Godiva chocolate or pizza outweigh the pain and guilt that come at a later date when you start the scale to creep up again noted. We have things at the moment, the bring us joy right then and there, often not thinking about the future.
So, if weight gain, associated emotions, it stands to reason that weight loss would be good. If we do things that need based on joy, pleasure, we find in setting up and maintaining a weight loss and fitness program. If you do not get some pleasure in it, you will not continue. We have strong enough reasons to have in the not too distant future that is pleasurable enough to put us in continuing our motivating weight-loss attempts.
What are some of the reasons to motivate you to achieve your goals? I bet she emotions are based. Do you want to impress fit into the new bathing suit for your spouse? Do you want to win the person of your dreams? Have want to give your first bodybuilding and fitness show? Or do you simply want to just feel better and have more energy? What ever you choose, the benefit you will later be comfortable enough so that you give in to temptation and enjoy instant pleasure, will resist a piece of cake or ball Ben & Jerry's.
How do you resolve your feelings so that you are not trying to give up, and throw in the towel weight-loss? First of all, I do not think you ever solve the problem, easy to learn to better cope with your feelings. All our actions are done because we get a kind emotional payoff of them. When you sit at night and Gourge on food that you know you should not, you will always be a payoff of instant Pleasure.
To prevent this, we need to replace the payment with a new payment of feeling better, look better, or whatever you want to badly enough. You need to decide what things you think. Is the future joy you will lose 30 pounds for the pleasure will outweigh merit Eating junk right now, at this moment? That you must you some hard-hitting questions. It often amazes me that we will often walk up to the Strangers and ask them out on a date we do not want us to some questions that help to solve a problem.
Ask yourself: What do I want 'm thankful for now? What in my life I want to change right now? Why do I want to change it? What will bring about these changes, either now or in the near future. What is it about my weight loss efforts, I really want to achieve? Why do I want these goals so bad? How will they achieve make me feel? Do I really need this cookie / cake / ice cream, I'm calm now or something that is not right for me, right now.
How To In this type calls, I feel a little bit later, when the cycle of debt back? If you ask yourself to answer some basic questions and learn honestly, you can on the things that are really important. If you do matters, which in turn bring about joy because you have a meaning and a sense of relief knowing that you are better at things. And that in turn goes to the right back to emotions and how you feel, at a given point in time.
